For reading between the lines with greater comprehension
Something has shifted. You regarded him as your ally, collaborator and confidante, but now, not so much. You let him get in too close, too intimately involved and now you want to create some distance. You’re done asking “what should we do?” Now you’re asking, “what should I do?” and especially “what should I do […]
No matter what your race, creed or political persuasion you can be a jerk. That’s because it’s not what you believe or do, it’s how you decide what you believe or do. It’s not the choices you make but how you make the choices. Here’s how to make choices: Always with your gut. You’re gut […]
Parity means equality, and attachment parity in partnership means being equally dedicated to and dependent upon each other. Attachment parity is what stable couples have, and what unstable couples seek. Want to understand the partnership dance, the steps people take when getting together, staying together and even breaking up? Follow the attachment parity. We’re ambivalent […]
When cultural tribes get as polarized as ours, progress will only resume when the tribes that are wrong eat their humble pie, back down and shut up. And you know who you are. You don’t? We all know which tribes should back down. Trouble is, we disagree about which tribes they are. My tribe thinks the […]
“You’re being disrespectful!” is an arresting accusation made as though you should never be disrespectful, as though everyone always deserves total respect. Being respectful is treated as synonymous with being nice, disrespectful as with sinning. And yet none of us can or should respect everything and everybody equally. To do so would be to surrender […]
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