DEFINITION: Perceiving a first-strike attack against you that didn’t actually happen. Mistaking a benign gesture for a ‘tat,’ requiring a tit-for-tat retaliation. Mistats are the world’s greatest source of wasteful conflict. The moment of mistat is the instantaneous pivot point that can send an otherwise calm exchange up a viscous cycle of escalating conflict. Escalating, […]

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