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	<title>MIND READERS DICTIONARY &#187; fear</title>
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		<title>Chickenhawk: How did fear come to signify bravery?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Sep 2008 01:14:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Should I fight on?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bravery]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confidence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[connotations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Decision making]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[denotations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fear]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[one-sided]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Politics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[republicans]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Rhetoric]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Neo-conservatives and militant Islamic fundamentalists both claim to be braver than the rest of us because they see a clear and present danger that we don&#8217;t. Both movements fear that liberalism and tolerance are powerful corruptive forces that are about to take over the world. They have that much in common. They differ on their [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Sorrytaliatory Cycle: &#8220;I owe you an apology or a scolding, I can&#8217;t tell which.&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Aug 2007 21:51:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Can I trust them?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[How can I communicate this to her?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[How should I handle it with my friend?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[How should I handle this conflict?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Is there a win/win solution?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Is this worth wondering about?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I fight on?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I give in?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I sacrifice?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I say it?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I stay?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Causality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Decision making]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fear]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[guilt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Hierarchy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Paradoxes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pride]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Rhetoric]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[shame]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/blog/?p=602</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Sorrytaliatory Cycle: My mistake—no, yours—no, mine—no . . . “Excuse me, my unfocused words. I was flying blind. If you can find it in your heart . . . if you’ve got one. . .” “Shame,” by Randy Newman from the album “Bad Love” Decision theory recognizes that any yes/no question entails the prospect of [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Triads: Variation on a theme of variation on a theme</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Aug 2006 16:28:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Can I change him?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Can I do better?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[How should I negotiate this?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I commit?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I expect less from them?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I expect more from them?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I hold onto my dream or face reality?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I just accept this?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I say it?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I stay?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[What's the spiritual thing to do?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Accept vs. Aspire]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[axe]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[C.S.Peirce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Causality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Decision making]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ego]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emergence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Environment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Evolution]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[exit]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[expectations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fear]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fight]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[flight]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[id]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lax]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Logic]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[loyalty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[me]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ox]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Philosophy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[plans]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Politics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[retention]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[selection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Serenity prayer]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[super-ego]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[take it leave it try to change it]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[u.s.]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[variation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[voice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[you]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/blog/?p=161</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Last issue, (Search &#8220;Lax&#8221;), I presented evolution’s three collaborative yet contentious cooks—variation, selection, and retention—and assigned them nicknames that express their personalities: 1. Lax: Loose variation, going with the flow 2. Axe: Discerning selection, the cut that accepts some things and rejects others 3. Ox: Persistent retention, stubbornly asserting itself to do more of the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Pre-grief: Is something gained in letting go before something is lost?</title>
		<link>http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/can-i-change-him/communication/pre-grief/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jun 2006 18:43:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Can I do better?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[How can I communicate this to her?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[How should I handle it with my friend?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Is this a sign?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Is this worth fighting for?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Is this worth wondering about?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I be thinking about the bigger picture?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I expect less from them?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I expect more from them?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I fight on?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I get over it?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I give in?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I hold onto my dream or face reality?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I just accept this?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I sacrifice?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I take what he said to heart?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I wait?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[What's the spiritual thing to do?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Which move helps my career?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anticipation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Buddhism]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[death]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Decision making]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disappointment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[expectation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[expectation management]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fear]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grief]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mourning]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Paradoxes]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/blog/?p=101</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When my mother was diagnosed with cancer but still waiting for test results, she was very anxious. To counter her anxiety, she asked, “What’s the use of grieving now? If it’s bad, I’ll still have to grieve later.” As reasonable as this sentiment is, it didn’t help. She grieved both before and after the test [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Mistat: How the other guy becomes the one who started it</title>
		<link>http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/can-i-change-him/communication/mistat/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jun 2004 02:35:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[How can I communicate this to her?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[How should I handle this conflict?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Is there a win/win solution?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I fight on?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I give in?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[What should I do about this business problem?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Causality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cooperation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[deception]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Decision making]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[defection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emergence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[escallation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fear]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[first Strike]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[game theory]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Hierarchy]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Rhetoric]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tit for tat]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[trust]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[DEFINITION: Perceiving a first-strike attack against you that didn&#8217;t actually happen. Mistaking a benign gesture for a &#8216;tat,&#8217; requiring a tit-for-tat retaliation. Mistats are the world&#8217;s greatest source of wasteful conflict. The moment of mistat is the instantaneous pivot point that can send an otherwise calm exchange up a viscous cycle of escalating conflict. Escalating, [...]]]></description>
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