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		<title>Means and Ends: Opening a can (and can&#8217;t) of worms.</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jul 2008 18:06:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q: Why do dogs lick their genitals? A: Because they can. As with all jokes, this one is a bait and switch. We were expecting a motive and got a de-constraint instead. The question led us to think about the dog&#8217;s ends (no pun intended), and instead we&#8217;re shunted to consideration of the dog&#8217;s means. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Youjustifications: Why are we fighting? Let me not count the ways</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jun 2007 14:54:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Can I trust them?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[How should I handle it with my friend?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[How should I handle this conflict?]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Is there a win/win solution?]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Is this worth wondering about?]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[What should I do about this business problem?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Which move helps my career?]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Youjustifications : I&#8217;m right because you just&#8230; Again, he&#8217;s ready to leave for an event and she&#8217;s not. He asks her how long she&#8217;ll be, honestly, because once he knows, he can adjust, do something to pass the time, manage his impatience with distractions. It&#8217;s just the uncertainty that irritates him. To appease his impatience [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Liked and likely stories: Two separate uses for one set of clues</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jan 2006 10:44:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Should I hold onto my dream or face reality?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[What's the moral thing to do here?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[believe]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cosmology]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Out of respect, we tend to operate on the assumption that people want to believe what&#8217;s true. We give people (and especially ourselves) the benefit of the doubt through the assumption that we are realists. Of course, we recognize that people sometimes cling to unrealistic ideas and that what we want to believe and what [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Seesaw: Explanations as the shaky balance between what is and what should be</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 May 2005 22:36:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Can I get resolution on this?]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Is this a double standard?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Is this a sign?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Is this worth wondering about?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I commit?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I expect less from them?]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Should I reconsider?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I relax?]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Should I take what he said to heart?]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[What is my role here?]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[What's the spiritual thing to do?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Which move helps my career?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Will it promote or discourage better behavior?]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;No, you don&#8217;t understand. You see, I show up late for work because I have trouble waking up on time.&#8221; If someone&#8217;s behavior is bugging you, the generous way to broach the topic is to ask what drives the behavior. If there&#8217;s a good explanation, you can learn to accommodate it. If there isn&#8217;t, you [...]]]></description>
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