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		<title>Generalizing: Learn the lessons of history, but which ones?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 00:13:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Should I get over it?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Bush]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Decision making]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[denial]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/?p=1136</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[A few months before Katrina, I caught one of the early Mardi Gras parades in a rural town outside New Orleans. Race relations there seemed different from those here in Northern California. Blacks were more outgoing and friendly to whites, and yet there also seemed to be more racial segregation. At the parade, the floats [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Nounism: Taking THINGS too seriously</title>
		<link>http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/can-i-change-him/communication/nounism/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Oct 2008 23:55:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[How can I communicate this to her?]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Should I hold onto my dream or face reality?]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Emergence]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[name calling]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Palin]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[permanence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Politics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[reification]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/?p=1106</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Last week New Yorker columnist George Packer noted that while Sarah Palin&#8217;s syntax is mangled, more significantly it lacks verbs. It&#8217;s mostly nouns. Maverick, hockey mom, Joe sixpack, elitist, terrorist, small-town people&#8211;lots of heavily loaded nouns. Loaded nouns and the adjectives that modify them are part of everyone&#8217;s vocabulary, but in recent decades&#8211;under the influence [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Reality and &#8220;Reality&#8221;: Our high-stakes referendum on two definitions</title>
		<link>http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/can-i-change-him/communication/reality/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Oct 2008 22:59:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[epistemology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[facts]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[reality]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[rove]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/?p=1107</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Our election is 13 days away. If you&#8217;re bothered by my political focus lately, please know I&#8217;ll be back to the usual soon. This election is proving to be a referendum on the central tenets of Mindreaders Dictionary. I can&#8217;t resist making the connections. I watch this election from several perspectives. Among them: Mine: What [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Teflon Tyranny: The hidden cost of self-defense</title>
		<link>http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/should-i-say-it/teflon-tyranny/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Sep 2008 01:27:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Should I get over it?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I hold onto my dream or face reality?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Should I say it?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Decision making]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[diplomacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[feedback]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[megalomania]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-certainty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sociopath]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[teflon]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tyrany]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/?p=1072</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Studying politics and history, one character keeps popping up and making trouble. Here are his essential characteristics: 1. He believes he knows what everyone should do. 2. He believes it is his mission to get everyone to do it. 3. He is 100% confident in this belief and mission. 4. He is also 100% confident [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Plato: Why Democrats and Republicans drive each other crazy</title>
		<link>http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/can-i-do-better/is-there-something-to-learn-here/plato/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Sep 2008 01:04:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Should I fight on?]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[decided]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Socrates]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/?p=1060</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[All philosophy is &#8220;footnotes to Plato,&#8221; or so said philosopher Alfred North Whitehead. He was exaggerating, but I will say this. All human life (including this year&#8217;s elections) plays out Plato&#8217;s most famous story, but with two divergent endings. You have probably heard about Plato&#8217;s cave. Even if you haven&#8217;t, if you&#8217;ve seen The Matrix, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Right and Wrong: Where do you draw the starting line?</title>
		<link>http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/can-i-do-better/is-there-something-to-learn-here/right-and-wrong/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 17:21:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Is this worth wondering about?]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[bad]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/?p=997</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[How old is the difference between right and wrong? Some think it dates back to the origins of the universe. Some believe that God, the prime mover, knew right from wrong and designed everything to play out the appropriate balance between the two. Others think right and wrong are as old as God but not [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Philosophizing: Hard because it&#8217;s easy</title>
		<link>http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/can-i-do-better/is-there-something-to-learn-here/philosophizing/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 02:31:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Should I get over it?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[big questions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cosmology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Decision making]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[falsifiability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Learning]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[methodology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Paradoxes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Philosophy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[practicality]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/?p=978</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[By Jeremy Sherman, Ph.D. A man boasts about his successful marriage. &#8220;What&#8217;s your secret?&#8221; a friend asks. &#8220;Simple division of labor,&#8221; the husband says. &#8220;I make all the big decisions; my wife makes all the small ones.&#8221; &#8220;I don&#8217;t understand,&#8221; says his friend. &#8220;For instance?&#8221; &#8220;For instance, my wife decides where I work, where we [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Fallibilism: Every belief is a bet but some bets are better than others</title>
		<link>http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/can-i-change-him/communication/fallibilism/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 02:12:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[How can I communicate this to her?]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Should I hold onto my dream or face reality?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bible]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confidence levels]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[epistemology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Evolution]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fallibalism]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fundamentalism]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[god]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/?p=977</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[The other day I had a very interesting conversation with a truly engaged and engaging Christian. We were talking about the Bible. He&#8217;s a literalist. He believes that the Bible&#8217;s meaning is clear and certain, and that it&#8217;s only when other people engage in an act he calls &#8220;interpreting&#8221; that things get muddled. I asked [...]]]></description>
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		<title>SCIBIT: Building a scientifically coherent integrated bottom-up information theory</title>
		<link>http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/can-i-change-him/communication/scibit/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2008 06:47:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Causality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[energy]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[information]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[language]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[origins of language]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/?p=960</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[As you know, when I&#8217;m not juicing the details of everyday interaction to extract the basic dance moves people make in dealing with tough judgment calls, I&#8217;m working with academic colleagues on putting together what I&#8217;ll call a SCIBIT-a Scientifically Coherent Integrated Bottom-up Information Theory. Information theory is a theory about what information is and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Seven Wonderings of the Modern World: The human tough judgment calls</title>
		<link>http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/can-i-change-him/communication/seven-wonderings-of-the-modern-world/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jun 2008 17:07:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[gratification]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[human nature]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/?p=970</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been doing Mind Readers Dictionary steadily for close to five years&#8211;one article, one idea per week. Only now am I getting around the stuff that started it all for me, the universal tough judgment calls at the heart of all the uncertainty we feel in any and every area of life. Last week I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>ACIDs (Ambiguous Cues; Incompatible Dos): What eats at us when something does</title>
		<link>http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/should-i-commit/acids/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 May 2008 22:41:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Am I missing the forest for trees?]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[dilemmas]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[forks in the road]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[horns of dilemma]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last week I argued that we need names for the generic tough judgment calls we all deal with. I gave a few examples: Should I be receptive or assertive? Should I manipulate or be honest? I argued that we pretend we can live by one-sided principles &#8211; assert your rights, accept things as they are, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Generic Tough Judgment Calls:  Why don&#8217;t we have names for them?</title>
		<link>http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/can-i-change-him/communication/generic-tough-judgment-calls/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 14:59:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[acids]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Am I missing the forest for trees?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[close calls]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[coinings]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/?p=966</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Recently, I was listening to an NPR report on Jimmy Carter&#8217;s meeting with leaders of the Palestinian militant Hamas party. The reporter had two experts on to debate the merits of Carter&#8217;s action. One argued that Carter sent the wrong message. Diplomatic engagement only encourages Hamas leaders to stand irrationally firm. The other said Carter [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Exaptation: The loose link between representation and function</title>
		<link>http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/can-i-change-him/communication/exaptation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Apr 2008 15:18:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/?p=964</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m a musician. I&#8217;ll admit that when I was a teen, I got into it as a way to improve my status with women. I don&#8217;t know that it ever helped much; I&#8217;m no superstar. Still, I&#8217;ve stayed a musician. Music has stayed functional in my life. But now, music represents something other than status [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Floating for-ness: Under a firm mantle of function, molten motives churn.</title>
		<link>http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/can-i-change-him/communication/floating-for-ness/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2008 02:34:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/?p=963</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[You&#8217;re in love, or so you think. You certainly feel in love, but now that you&#8217;ve been run through the mill a few times, you wonder what the feeling really means. You love being loved. But think about it, why does this person love you? What&#8217;s the motivation? When someone says, &#8220;I love you,&#8221; what [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Zipslide Errors: Confusing the nature of past and future</title>
		<link>http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/can-i-do-better/is-there-something-to-learn-here/zipslide-errors/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2008 04:40:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Loosely speaking, time is like zipping up a very long zipper. The future is open; the past is closed. The present is like the zipslide closing up possibilities. While we may not be able to determine what happened in the past, the past is nonetheless determined. The future is not. It&#8217;s unknowably open. There is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Brain Velcro: Why good things happen to bad ideas</title>
		<link>http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/can-i-change-him/communication/brain-velcro/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Apr 2008 19:27:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Most people even mildly interested in evolution have heard about the &#8220;selfish gene.&#8221; The concept is simple yet with counterintuitive implications. Richard Dawkins, who coined the term, argues that the best way to understand evolution is to imagine that genes selfishly want to preserve themselves, and so produce elaborate replicator vehicles (us) designed to help [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Self-efficacy: How supply permits demand</title>
		<link>http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/career/self-efficacy/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2008 00:32:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Give the work to the busy man,&#8221; my mother used to say. It made sense. A busy man (or woman, in her case) had momentum and a can-do spirit. The technical name for a can-do spirit is self-efficacy, a belief that you are capable of being effective. Psychologist Albert Bandura, who coined the term, attributes [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Prevenge: &#8220;I&#8217;m like rubber; you&#8217;re like screwed.&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/can-i-change-him/communication/prevenge-im-like-rubber-youre-like-screwed/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 14:51:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever blackmailed someone? I attempted to blackmail a policeman the other evening. I was driving somewhere in my usual hurry. After I rolled through a stop sign, he trailed me and gave me a ticket. I acted put out, sullen, unfriendly. He remained cheerful. After he gave me the ticket, he said, &#8220;Drive [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Turing&#8217;s Blurring Anxiety (TBA): Forgiving dead jerks but not live ones.</title>
		<link>http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/can-i-change-him/communication/turings-blurring-anxiety/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 17:13:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/?p=952</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[What do you say about a deceased jerk, someone who treated you badly before shuffling off this mortal coil?The natural temptation is to say, &#8220;She could have done better,&#8221; but what could that mean? That had she tried a little harder, she would have been able to control her vices? Meaning if she had been [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Guesswork: Enough is enough, but how much is enough?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 17:10:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/?p=951</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Three weeks ago I recounted a lot of tough problems raised over the ages about how cause and effect really work. One of the toughest was that if cause and effect works like we normally think it does-thing A bumps into thing B and moves it in a precisely predictable direction, then the whole universe [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Deduction: The dream and nightmare of absolute certainty him in a</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 17:07:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/?p=950</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Last week I began comparing and contrasting computers and minds, examining both human intuitions and appetites regarding the prospect that our minds are governed by the same kind of direct one-to-one-correspondence kind of cause-and-effect we see in the physical world (Aristotle&#8217;s efficient cause). If minds are really like computers, just translating information from one form [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Free Willies: Are computers like humans? Are humans like computers?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 17:03:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mindreadersdictionary.com/?p=949</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[The World Wide Web, it&#8217;s like a giant human mind the way it processes billions of pieces of information. Someday it will become so smart it takes over the world. It will be able to think instead of us. Or so some cognitive scientists say. Your new computer too, it thinks so fast. The better [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Co-dependence: When do two wrongs make a right?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jan 2008 03:35:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m trying a new way to deal with effronteries. When someone does me harm, I have an old habit of compensating myself with the grant of retaliatory superiority. I automatically think, &#8220;This proves that I&#8217;m different from (and better than) them. I hold to the high standards better than they do, and I&#8217;m therefore entitled [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Transceiver Bias: Writing and reading are not the same thing</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jan 2008 03:35:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Transceivers transmit and receive, and we do too. &#8220;Transceiver bias&#8221; is my name for self-image distortions that arise from receiving information about how we&#8217;re doing while we&#8217;re preoccupied with transmitting information, that is, expressing ourselves. We&#8217;re often surprised by photographs of ourselves. They don&#8217;t look like what we see in the mirror. Part of this [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Other Golden Rule:  Do unto yourself as you do unto others</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Dec 2007 02:24:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Sherman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Golden Rule-do unto others as you would have them do unto you, is about as basic as morality gets. It&#8217;s the bridge between empathy and sympathy, between putting yourself in someone else&#8217;s shoes and making some accommodation to them as a result. Putting oneself in someone else&#8217;s shoes is, of course, a figure of [...]]]></description>
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